I just want to address an issue I have with black people determining whether a child is gay or not, by what kind of toys they play with or the gender of kids with whom they play with. I have a 7 year old nephew whom for the majority of his childhood he spent playing with dolls and has been on numerous play dates where he was the only boy around a group of girls. This has convinced most of my family members and members in his community that he is gay. This is a simple case of adults sexualizing a child's childhood based on the child's friends and preferences in toys. We're all familiar with the expectations bestowed upon each gender and the gender characteristics that have not only been taught but also have been implemented generations after generations. These expectations cause more harm than good cause they "help differentiate" girls from boys, by providing restricting gender roles. The numerous different stereotypes goes on and on for instance how men who are